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那种,然后同桌的还有除了男女主的另外一对男女,也是因为没赶上地铁末班车的,但也是陌生人,然后小麦突然看到了有个非常有名的电影人,小娟竟然也认识,然后旁边那对完全不认识,还在那吹自己看过很多电影,比如《肖申克的救赎》,于是男女主都特别鄙夷地看着他们,然后他们又去了另一个有点像泡澡的地方席地而坐,他们发现了自己的鞋子都是一样的,然后在女的去上厕所的时候,小麦暗恋的学姐也来了,然后小麦就去跟学姐他们一起坐了,小娟回来后有点不开心就说去朋友家睡,幸好小麦看出来了(他竟然看出来了,本来以为应该是没填过恋爱很木讷的),就追出去,然后就去了小麦家,到了家小娟发现小麦家的书柜上的书简直就跟她自己家的一模一样,小麦还给小娟吹了头发,一起吃烤饭团,看电影,第二天送小娟上了公交,还约好了一起看木乃伊展,然而并没有交换联系方式,但是他们还是约上了一起看了木乃伊展,在餐馆就出现了片头那一幕的来源,因为餐馆他们想一起听歌,就用有线耳机一人一个耳朵听,但是旁边就有个大叔说“你们是不是不爱音乐,左右耳朵是不一样的,只有一起听才是真正的音乐”这样的话,然后的剧情有点跳,因为是指他们一直在这家餐馆吃饭,中间有他们一起出去玩情节穿插着,也是在这他们确立了关系,可以说主体就是体现了他们非常的合拍和默契,就像一些影评说的,这部电影是说如何跟百分百合拍的人分手,然后就是正常的恋爱开始啪啪啪,一直腻在床上,也没去就业说明会,后面也有讲了一点小麦带着小娟去认识他的朋友,也把小娟介绍给了他们认识,这里算是个小伏笔,后面他们分手也有这里的人的一些关系,接下去的剧情说实话我是不太喜欢的,如果一部八分的电影只是说恋爱被现实打败的话,我觉得在我这是不合格的,但是事实也是这样,小麦其实是有家里的资助,所以后面还是按自己的喜好给一些机构画点插画,小娟则要出去工作,因为小娟家庭观念也是要让她出去有正经工作,用脚指头想也能知道肯定不顺利,然后就是暂时在一家蛋糕店工作,小麦就每天去接小娟,日子过得甜甜蜜蜜,后面小娟在自己的努力下考了个什么资格证,去了一家医院还是什么做前台行政,这中间当然就有父母来见面吃饭了,他们在开始恋爱不久就同居合租了,然后小娟父母就是来说要让她有个正经工作,对男的说的话就是人生就是责任这类的话,而小麦爸爸算是个导火索,因为小麦家里是做烟花生意的,他爸让他就做烟花生意,因为要回老家,并且小麦也不想做,所以就拒绝了,然后他爸就说不给他每个月五万的资助,这也导致了小麦需要去找工作,这个过程也是很辛苦,本来想要年前找好工作,然后事与愿违,后面有一次小娟被同事吐槽怎么从来不去团建,于是她就去了(我以为会拒绝),正在团建的时候小麦给她电话,说找到工作了,是一个创业物流公司这种,这里剧情就是我觉得比较俗套的,小麦各种被虐,累成狗,但是就像小娟爸爸说的话,人生就是责任,所以一直在坚持,但是这样也导致了跟小娟的交流也越来越少,他们原来最爱的漫画,爱玩的游戏,也只剩小娟一个人看,一个人玩,而正是这个时候,小娟说她辞掉了工作,去做一个不是太靠谱的漫画改造的密室逃脱,然后这里其实有一点后面争议很大的,就是这个工作其实是前面小麦介绍给小娟的那些朋友中一个的女朋友介绍的,而在有个剧情就是小娟有一次在这个密室逃脱的老板怀里醒过来,是在 KTV 那样的场景里,这就有很多人觉得小娟是不是出轨了,我觉得其实不那么重要,因为这个离职的事情已经让一切矛盾都摆在眼前,小麦其实是接受这种需要承担责任的生活,也想着要跟小娟结婚,但是小娟似乎还是想要过着那样理想的生活,做自己想做的事情,看自己爱看的漫画,也要小麦能像以前那样一直那么默契的有着相同的爱好,这里的触发点其实还有个是那个小麦的朋友(也就是他女朋友介绍小娟那个不靠谱工作的)的葬礼上,小麦在参加完葬礼后有挺多想倾诉的,而小娟只是想睡了,这个让小麦第二天起来都不想理小娟,只是这里我不太理解,难道这点闹情绪都不能接受吗,所谓的合拍也只是毫无限制的情况下的合拍吧,真正的生活怎么可能如此理想呢,即使没有物质生活的压力,也会有其他的各种压力和限制,在这之后其实小麦想说的是小娟是不是没有想跟自己继续在一起的想法了,而小娟觉得都不说话了,还怎么结婚呢,后面其实导演搞了个小 trick,突然放了异常婚礼,但是不是男女主的,我并不觉得这个桥段很好,在婚礼里男女主都觉得自己想要跟对方说分手了,但是当他们去了最开始一直去的餐馆的时候,一个算是一个现实映照的就是他们一直坐的位子被占了,可能也是导演想通过这个来说明他们已经回不去了,在餐馆交谈的时候,小麦其实是说他们结婚吧,并没有想前面婚礼上预设地要分手,但是小娟放弃了,不想结婚,因为不想过那样的生活了,而小麦觉得可能生活就是那样,不可能一直保持刚恋爱时候的那种感觉,生活就是责任,人生就意味着责任。<p>我的一些观点也在前面说了,恋爱到婚姻,即使物质没问题,经济没问题,也会有各种各样的问题,需要一起去解决,因为结婚就意味着需要相互扶持,而不是各取所需,可能我的要求比较高,后面男女主在分手后还一起住了一段时间,我原来还在想会不会通过这个方式让他们继续去磨合同步,只是我失望了,最后给个打分可能是 5 到 6 分吧,勉强及格,好的影视剧应该源于生活高于生活,这一部可能还比不上生活。</div><footer class=post-footer><div class="affiliate-creative affiliate-creative--post-end" data-affiliate-id=tencent-cloud-general><a rel="sponsored noopener" aria-label=腾讯云产品优惠 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